It is that time of year when the 'round robin' letters start to come through the letter box poorly disguised as Christmas cards. There is only one I enjoy reading: it is printed in newspaper columns and purports to be a journal of the year from the area of Peterborough where I was born. In one comment David says,
"A drunk thumped on my door at 11.00pm claiming he lived in my house. He failed to take any heed of my brief advice concerning sex and travel, so I called the Police".
I think that's brilliant; I'm sure you have worked it out. I digress.
I always receive a long letter (2 sides of A4) from an ex-girlfriend who I have not seen for over 30 years. I was simply going to stop sending her a card, but I did drop her an email as she had added that her father's heart is failing.
Then I had one from a former head teacher; I sent an email last year with news but had no reply. All his news is of no interest to me.
Another letter made me sad, for myself; or is it jealous? A lovely guy with whom I was an university married an equally lovely girl I also know well from uni. He is highly successful and she is conducting concerts, in her area, of large-scale choral works. Here I am in the Midlands, teaching crotchets and quavers to 8-13 year olds. I'm expected to put on a school concert a mere 9 days into next term. My own organ playing skills are practically non-existent and my fingers are seizing up. I know why all my friends are such a success; they actually know how to get the best out of people. It's not a skill I have although I get by.
I suppose what I'm saying is that one's life pans out in a way one cannot predict and, by the time you have realised, it is too late to do anything about it.